You should say
-What is it?
-Why does it annoy you?
-How do you manage the situation?
Model Answer
Introduction
- There are times when one can be annoyed or angry at a particular thing or person.
- And this can be frustrating.
- I will be talking about a time when I got angry at some set of people.
What is it?
- It was about Christmas time 2 years ago,
- During this time of the year, my parent holds an annual gathering,
- Which included every member of the family.
- So the house was always full and also annoying.
- Don’t get me wrong I love having my family members over,
- But there is a limit I have to people invading my privacy.
- During this time of the year, an extra mattress is kept in my room,
- So I had to share my room with some of my cousins.
- I love them but they can be sometimes annoying.
- This time around, they took their annoying attitude to a whole new level.
- I had 4 of them sleep in my room that night,
- I knew they were lousy but I didn’t know how loud.
- They practically talked loud, made video calls and laughed so loud I couldn’t sleep.
- And they did that all night,
- When it was time to wake up in the morning to do some house chores,
- They refused to wake up and slept until I came to wake them up for breakfast.
Why did it annoy you?
- I was so mad at them to the extent that,
- I had a strong urge to send them out of my room that night
- But I had to withhold my anger.
- I couldn’t sleep and I was left with a terrible migraine in the morning.
- To top it all up they decided it was time to sleep when others were busy working after they had hindered my sleep all night.
How did you manage the situation?
- I had such a hard time suppressing my anger all through the night,
- And when it was morning, their nonchalant attitude even made it worst,
- So when I was asked to wake them up for breakfast
- I got a bucket of cold water and poured it on them.
- I know it sounds immature and wrong to do that,
- Probably I could have handled the situation better,
- But that was all I could think of at that moment.
Conclusion
Everybody has a limit, and when pushed towards that limit there is a tiny chance of thinking rationally.
Part-3 : Follow up Questions
1.Can children be annoying?
Yes they can, children have a very high tendency of being irritating by throwing unnecessary tantrums.
2.Do old people get annoyed?
Yes, old people get angry at almost everything. Especially those with health issues. They then tend to be aggressive.
3.What do you think should be done when annoyed?
There are different things to do like, tell yourself to calm down, Force yourself to leave the situation, Use visualization to calm down, count to 10 (or 50… or 100) if you feel like you’re about to do or say something harmful. Splash some cold water on your face. Slow down and focus on your breathing.