You should say:
-What was the occasion?
-Who was the person?
-What did he hide about?
-and explain why you think the person did not tell the whole truth.
Model Answer
Introduction
- Being cheated is a bad experience.
- I hate cheaters.
- And would never like to be involved with one.
- I will recount an instance when I was cheated.
What was the occasion?
- Rehan was a former friend of mine,
- Did a job together for a big client.
- And this client paid heavily.
Who was this person?
- I got the job but need assistance with graphics.
- We agreed to share the income 70/30.
- I got 70% and he got 30 .
- Because the work he needed to do was not much.
What did he do?
- When the client wanted to pay.
- I needed a domiciliary account but had none.
- And since he had I decided to use his domiciliary account.
- The client and I agreed on $500.
- But I never told my friend the price.
- When the client sent the money.
- My friend lied that the client sent $250.
- He removed his shares and gave me mine.
- Unknown to him my client had sent the receipt for the transaction,
- After sending the money.
Why do you think he lied?
- My friend denied receiving $500 and ran away with the remaining money.
- I felt disappointed and I didn’t think he had any genuine reason to lie to me.
- I haven’t seen him since then.
- But I have forgiven him.
Conclusion
Being cheated is a bad experience.
Part-3 : Follow up Questions
1: What do you think is the side effect of being cheated?
Being cheated cannot only influence your self-esteem and self-worth; it can also influence the way you treat those around you. Built-up anger, bitterness, or hurt can show itself in how you act around the people you encounter. And it becomes difficult to trust people.
2: Should spouses cheat on themselves?
No they shouldn’t because If you cheat to your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife, you will damage them badly emotionally and mentally. You will break not only their heart but also their mind and soul. You will weaken their trust, respect, hope, and dreams. You will cause them great sorrow and sadness that might destroy their life.
3: Should cheaters be forgiven?
Ans: There’s no explicit answer as to whether you should forgive a cheater. It’s up to you to make that decision and it’s crucial to remember that forgiveness is a strength. You need to think long and hard about what you want out of a relationship.